Dementia Care in Westerly, CT
Specialized in-home support for seniors with dementia, Alzheimer's, and memory loss.
No sales pressure. We'll tell you straight if we're not a fit.
You noticed it on a Tuesday, maybe after dinner, when your parent couldn’t remember how to get back from the backyard of the house they’ve lived in for thirty years. Westerly is a small place where people know each other, and that made it harder to say out loud. But you’ve said it now, at least to yourself, and you’re trying to figure out what comes next.
Memory loss changes everything in the house. The routines that used to run on their own now need someone steady to hold them together. What families here need is a caregiver who understands that consistency, a familiar face and a predictable day, is the whole job.
We’re a nurse-founded home care agency serving Westerly and all of New London County. We match caregivers to the person, not just the schedule, and we stay reachable when things change.
Dementia care at home is about maintaining the shape of a person’s day so that the world around them feels predictable enough to navigate. That means help with morning routines, meals, medications reminders, safe movement around the home, and the kind of gentle redirection that keeps anxiety from building. It also means being a calm presence when confusion sets in, someone who doesn’t panic and doesn’t correct harshly.
Day to day, families across Westerly are dealing with things like wandering risk near the yard or street, sundowning in the evenings, and a parent who may resist help from a family member but accept it from a patient, neutral caregiver. Our aides help with personal hygiene, dressing, light meals, and companionship through the day. For families bringing someone home after a hospital stay, including from Lawrence + Memorial Hospital in New London, we can often begin care within 48 hours of discharge so there’s no gap when supervision is most critical.
Because we’re nurse-founded, the people who built this agency have actually sat with families in this situation at the bedside. That means our intake process is designed to catch the details that matter for dementia care specifically, not just hours and tasks, but triggers, preferences, communication style, and what a good day actually looks like for your parent.
Nurse-founded
This agency was started by a working nurse who saw firsthand what families navigating memory loss actually need: safety at home, consistency in routine, and someone who understands the difference between a bad day and a turning point. That perspective is built into everything we do.
Built for dementia care specifically
We don’t treat dementia care the same as a companion visit. Our matching process accounts for cognitive stage, behavioral patterns, and what kind of person your parent responds well to. The caregiver briefing before a first shift is detailed because the first meeting matters.
We stay reachable
When something changes with a dementia care situation, it usually changes fast and at an inconvenient hour. You can reach us. We pick up, we call back, and we don’t leave you waiting for an answer when you need one today.
Local to Westerly and New London County
We know how discharge works at Lawrence + Memorial Hospital, we know the roads and neighborhoods across Westerly, and we know the families here. That local knowledge makes the practical side of getting care started faster and smoother.
How it works
We start with a real conversation about your situation. No intake forms, no pressure, no sales pitch. You tell us what’s going on and we listen, including the parts that are hard to say.
For dementia care specifically, the match matters more than almost anything else. We look at your parent’s personality, history, routine, and what tends to go sideways, then find someone who fits that picture, not just someone who’s available.
For Westerly families in an urgent situation, often same day. We know that when memory loss is a factor, waiting is not neutral. We move quickly without cutting corners on the match.
We stay in contact after care begins. If something shifts, if your parent’s needs change or a caregiver isn’t the right fit, you call us and we adjust. You’re never left to figure it out on your own.
Why families choose us
Every aide is trained and supervised through an RN’s lens — not just placed and forgotten.
Personality fit matters more than skill on paper. We match for temperament, pace, and patience.
No franchise rotation. You work with the people who run this agency — direct, accessible, accountable.
Most families are matched with a caregiver within 24 to 48 hours. When something shifts at home, we move quickly.
We build a daily structure around your parent’s rhythm — meals, walks, evenings — and protect it.
You hear from us, not just the aide. Updates on appetite, sleep, mood, mobility — the things that matter.
Every caregiver clears a multi-step screening — background check, reference checks, and an in-person interview with our RN founder — before they're ever placed in a home.
Why families trust us
Private Duty Aides is nurse-founded. Every caregiver clears a multi-step screening — a background check, reference checks, and an in-person interview with our RN founder — before they are ever placed in a home. You get the same consistent caregiver, matched by a nurse, not whoever happens to be available.
Common questions
A typical day looks different depending on the stage of memory loss, but it generally includes help with getting up and dressed, preparing and eating meals, medication reminders, safe movement around the home, and activities that feel familiar and grounding, like a walk, music, or simple conversation. The caregiver also provides quiet company during stretches of the day when being alone increases confusion or agitation. Evening shifts often focus on the sundowning period, keeping the environment calm and the routine predictable as the day winds down.
In most cases we can begin care within 48 hours of a hospital discharge, and for families in Westerly with an urgent situation we often arrange a first shift the same day. The key is calling us as soon as you know a discharge date is coming, even if the exact day isn't set yet. We've coordinated many times with families coming home from Lawrence + Memorial and we know how to move quickly without skipping the matching process that matters for dementia care.
Our dementia care is private pay, which means it's not billed through Medicare or most insurance plans. Medicare does cover some skilled nursing or therapy services in the home, but it doesn't cover the ongoing non-medical supervision and assistance that dementia care requires. Some long-term care insurance policies do cover private duty home care, so it's worth checking your policy. We're straightforward about costs from the first conversation so there are no surprises.
A home health aide typically works under a medical order and focuses on skilled or clinical tasks during shorter visits. Dementia care through us is non-medical and ongoing, centered on daily routine, safety, companionship, and consistency rather than medical procedures. The distinction matters because what a person with memory loss needs most isn't clinical intervention on a given Tuesday, it's the same calm familiar face showing up at the same time and helping the day feel manageable. Our caregivers are selected and briefed specifically for that role.
Yes, and that's genuinely the most important part of what we do for dementia care. We ask about your parent's history, personality, what tends to go well and what tends to go badly, and what a good hour looks like for them right now. Then we find a caregiver whose temperament and experience fit that picture. It's not a perfect science, but it's a real process, and if the first match doesn't click we make a change without making you feel like you're asking for too much.
We do our best to send a backup caregiver who has been briefed on your parent specifically, not a stranger walking in cold. For dementia care this matters more than almost any other service, because an unfamiliar face without context can cause real distress. We keep notes on preferences, routines, and known triggers so that any caregiver we send has something to work from. You'll also hear from us directly, not find out by nobody showing up.
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